I remember when my kids were fighting with plastic soldiers, my friends would be angry, waiting for me to arrange my bat in a straight line before the battle started. Later, when I was preparing for homework at home, I spent time organizing books, pencils and pens on one side, and sharpeners and calculators on the other. Everything is set in my scope in the order I will use them. My sister sometimes appears and messes up everything just to make me crazy, I will stop working just to set it up again.
This is something I have opposed for years, but I can't get rid of the disorder of the order, as my mother said. Believe it or not, my teenage room is always in perfect condition, my clothes, CDs, shoes, everything has a specific place. I never thought this was a problem; it was part of me. My friends and family called me crazy, and often I didn't have the patience to wait for everything to be normal. Then I went to college, everything changed. All the students wanted to study with me. Everyone wanted to do the project with me. From the worst I became the best.
I have studied industrial and electrical engineering, we have a lot of projects, the terms and procedures for learning and learning, and there is not enough time to do it. From the beginning, my classmates and I were different, and my coercion became an asset. I completed my project quickly and efficiently, I wrote the course and learned the time perfectly, and in the specific order of my thinking. I graduated from the second place in my class, and the people behind him are more crazy than me. In our four years in college, we have had the opportunity to work together many times, and we work together. Today he is a consultant to NASA. I am a writer retiring from engineering.
Each of us should accept the special features we have and the weird ways of doing things. Each of us should learn how to use them to take advantage of our strengths. Most of the time, it's easier to find a way to actively use certain behaviors than to try to change them. In fact, you may waste years trying to correct or change these behaviors and never do it. People's perception of you or your way is not important. What matters is what you think of yourself and what you do to yourself. The only way to be happy in life is to be happy and satisfied with your way of being a person, not what you did or how much you have, but who you are.
No matter how old you are, what you do or want to do, if you haven't reached an agreement with yourself at this stage of your life, it's time to do it. Everyone in the world has reason to enter the world in one way or another. We are all part of a bigger plan, a bigger picture. If you are, it is unfair to be dissatisfied with yourself; you will also make people around you unhappy. This is not fair; each of us has its own problems and situations that need to be resolved. Look at yourself, see what is inside you, accept who you are and be happy. You owe yourself and those who love you and care for you.
Life is too short to waste it complaining or trying to change things that you can't change. Embrace life and turn those so-called negative characteristics into important assets for you and your family. Success and happiness in your mind and mind, no one will give them to you, your destiny and your life are yours. Everyone shares his or her life with others, but your feelings about yourself and the way you travel on this path are called life is your choice, not someone else's choice.
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