Family is the cornerstone of society. Parenting is a privilege of happiness, but it is also a serious responsibility. In today's consumer-oriented, lawless and sexually tolerant world, parenting has become a challenge. Over-exposure to audio and visual media from an early age, coupled with ineffective parenting, makes children selfish, self-indulgent, and seeks immediate satisfaction. They are given impulsive behavior and are easily frustrated.
Since the family is a training ground for nurturing children to replace their status as responsible adults in society, parents need to regularly assess how they operate. They must have a promising future while adhering to the values of the old world. As the world changes, the parenting principles are changing, and the role of parents changes as the child grows. From the disciplinary staff, they grew up to be mentor and friend. Very good in the Bible's proverb -
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"Train a child in the way he should go. When he is old, he won't leave it." Proverbs 22:6.
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No one can brag about being a perfect parent. Through trial and error, people can understand how to best shape their children's personality according to their own personality. Love, patience and negotiation skills are the foundation of good parenting. Teaching respect, responsibility and resourcefulness should be the goal.
Parental love is instinct and must be unconditional. It is best to express it in a child's way of training. Patients should not be ashamed of expressing emotions. A child is never too old to hug. The open feelings between husband and wife are the most reassuring for the child. He will believe that his love is safe and reliable, and they can guide him at any time. Good communication between parents and children helps to combine. Discipline can only be instilled when there is a healthy relationship between them.
Discipline is for the child's positive interests. Guarendi said: "Discipline is one of the gifts that parents can give their children the most love and durability." Children need borders and discipline to teach him to respect authority. Should always obey. It is important to praise good behavior. But he should also be taught to accept the answer to 'no'. Discipline provides a structure of emotional and social growth. He learns to abide by the family's ethical principles and develop confidence and responsibility for his actions. However, discipline must be consistent. Corrections must be done in a positive way, not through punitive measures. One must be kind but firmly enforce the rules. The child should know that discipline is like "wearing an elegant wreath on his head and a chain that decorates his neck." [Proverbs 1:7-9]
Excessive indulgence and stupid behavior can hinder the child's personality. This will deprive him of his ability to solve problems. It will destroy the motive and make him lazy. There are many reasons why parents become overly indulgent. Both parents may be working and feel guilty about not spending enough time on the child. They may be divorced and compensated by giving him too much freedom. They may be anxious parents who want to overprotect their children. Therefore, they put forward their ideas and requirements. Some parents have found ways to meet their needs through their children. Helicopter parents do not allow their children to grow up and make their own decisions.
On the other hand, tolerant parents let their children do what they like. They are non-command and non-required. Anything the child does is fine for them. Parents are so caught up in their lives that they do not have time to actively participate in their children's lives. Such children are not safe and lack direction. He knew that his parents would not care what he did. There are no guidelines or restrictions. Such children are confused, make wrong choices, and fall into criminal behavior.
At the other extreme is the authoritative parent who is a control freak and imposes strict rules that must be observed. They criticize what the child does. They destroyed his self-esteem by demeaning speech. There will never be words of praise. Threats and punitive measures against minor defects. As a result, the child became a nervous wreck, living under the cloud of fear. But as an adult, he may develop an antisocial personality that leads to frequent use of the law.
Because "the children are the inheritance of the Lord" [Psalm 127:3], the authority of the parents should be united. Parents cannot ask for conflicting demands. They need to be good role models and the family should provide a caring, caring and stimulating environment. They should be free to talk about their beliefs and their relationship with God. Instill moral values in your child. "The way to raise a moral child is to be a moral person," David Elkande said.
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