Thursday, June 13, 2019

Stuttering: One of the keys to happiness is poor memory

Isn't this true? Most of our stutterers review and analyze every word and sentence, and we say every situation, every opinion and every decision. Maybe not everyone, but I have been doing this until I get sick and tired of the habit I developed.

An interesting quote about happiness illustrates everything: one of the keys to happiness is poor memory. The author of this wonderful sentence is the American writer Rita May Brown. I like it. This makes me feel free. Don't always think about the past, could have been...

Of course, my life is not a disaster. To be honest, look back, I will not change anything. But as a stutterer, I am mostly fluent now, and I still can't stop reviewing and analyzing the steps I have taken. If I do that in a different way, I sometimes think that I am not in this situation. I hope to lose my memory from time to time. Imagine forgetting the past and just looking ahead.

But losing memory is not a solution. I have 18 years of speech problems and have successfully become a normal person in society. My life is a big fight. I have forgotten the empty time spent at home after the closing ceremony, but I am praying for fluency. There is only one thing in my life. I have not learned to look to the future, I am looking forward to happiness. Part of this world is married and has many friends. I always look back and think about what I should do.

But now it is different. I overcame stuttering and made small-conscious or unconscious steps every day. My speech is not fluent, but it no longer bothers me. What puzzles me is that I am still not ready to accept my past. I tend to forget to focus only on my future and forget that everything will be brilliant. It is not 100% because everyone has a problem.

It's about getting it! I should get everything I crave, if I can get it, it only depends on me. I am doing my best and love my life. But sometimes I want to forget the past just to be able to pay more attention to the future. Are you with me?





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