Bad parenting is the cause of our social ills. I know that there is a strong statement. Some people claim that evil is innate [as in original sin], but evil is born, not born. Others claim that heredity is the basis of personality, but there is no evidence to support this claim.
The idea of holding this personality and emotional growth and development was basically formed during the formation of childhood, and was supported by a large amount of empirical data and research.
Worse, an unwelcome child enters the world without love and affection. This child will not only thrive but may die prematurely in childhood.
Poor parenting methods may include a certain degree of love and affection, but often do not allow children to feel that these needs are fully met. Parental negligence and/or authoritarian parenting [which always includes spanking as punishment] is the main reason why parents fail to meet their children's feelings and accepted emotional needs.
Tell me a child whose emotional needs are not fully met and I will tell you a child who will miss a healthy emotional growth and development process more quickly. There are countless negative consequences ranging from social illness/mental illness to inadequate empathy, to anger, to low self-esteem, to clinical depression, to criminal behavior, to homelessness, or simply to tragic life.
The degree of long-term injury caused by parental malnutrition depends on the degree of unsatisfactory emotional needs of the child.
I have worked with children. They think that their parents can't really love them according to their treatment, but they have experienced rich cultivation from other sources, such as relatives or nannies. These children are the best candidates to overcome the bad parental care they suffer.
Indeed, many of us have overcome bad parenting methods so that we can enter the world and even lead a happy life. But, unfortunately, many of us have never had a chance to overcome the damage we have suffered.
The position I am proposing here may seem a bit simple, but only because it touches on the core of how we grow and develop emotionally. A child feels completely safe in the love and acceptance of his parents. He is a child and will provide a solid foundation for a fulfilling life.
Orignal From: Consequences of poor parents
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